Relating personal experience does not make one an 'MRA'.
It's always going to depend on who you know, and I'm not trying to say that feminism has made her a compassionate person, just that my friend is a good person regardless and her dedication to feminism hasn't made her into any sort of man-hating caricature.
When somebody has an ideological belief that you're luckier than they are it's difficult for them to feel empathy for you.